The scroll is silent, but its impact isn't—for millions of teen girls, daily social media use is quietly chipping away at self-esteem and fueling anxiety.
With significant physical, emotional, and hormonal developments, pressures to find one’s identity, and difficulties in navigating high-stakes situations such as academics, it’s safe to say that teenage years have always been difficult. Today’s teenagers, however, are forced to grapple with yet another factor — social media. Unlike past generations, teenage girls today are growing up online. From first thing in the morning until the moment they go to sleep, teenage girls are staring at screens… and the effects of this are extremely real and alarming.
In the spring of 2025, I sent a survey to 1,000 teenage girls across America. My collected data was fascinating, finding trends ranging from socioeconomic backgrounds to daily exercise and amounts of sleep. Most interestingly, I found that the more time girls spent on their phones, the lower they scored in confidence and self-image, and the higher they scored in daily levels of stress. Realizing this was both enlightening and upsetting, I decided to look deeper into it.
Among the girls who used high amounts of social media daily, 62% rated their self-esteem below 6 out of 10. This isn’t a coincidence — social media leaves girls stuck in a toxic loop of scrolling, comparing, feeling inadequate, posting for validation, and repeating the next day.
With the availability of filters and editing tools, beauty standards are reinforced and perpetuated. Social media also only exhibits little snippets of people’s lives, and because a person can choose what they want to post, only the happiest moments are captured and presented to the world. Watching influencers, friends, and strangers post such flawless moments causes girls to expect perfection, and inherently feel disappointment when perfection isn’t achieved.
This endless cycle of scrolling ends up slowly eating away at girls’ confidence, which amplifies anxiety, especially during the already difficult years of adolescence.
What Needs to Change
Schools should teach media literacy to promote healthier tech habits
Teens should be encouraged to unfollow harmful accounts and even seek body-positive or motivational influencers
Families should set phone-free times to model healthy tech use, or implement “screen time prevention” on their phones
